the user needs to have rights to access the db from the remote address. as mysql root, you need to run a command something like this:
Code:
GRANT ALL ON bytecon_baby.* to user@1.2.3.4 identified by 'pass';
that is of course if the remote connection was coming from 1.2.3.4 .. if you wanted to allow any ip address to connect using that login, then use '%' as the ip.
Code:
GRANT ALL ON bytecon_baby.* to user@'%' identified by 'pass';
also, on your connect, you don't need
:3306 after the ip address. that is the default mysql port and all you would need is the ip.