well, .. if you're not worried too much about security, .. then you can open it up by logging in as the mysql root on the server and typing this:
Code:
GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO sqluser@'%' IDENTIFIED BY 'passwd'
your syntax to login from the windows client looks correct:
Code:
cd c:\mysql\bin
mysql -usqluser -h192.168.0.2 -p
password: passwd
that should do it.